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5 min read
Right.
Before I wanna get started, I wanna say I'm sorry.
I've been in the Air Force, doing basic training and in college trying hard to become a Journalist.
like a good boy. haha...But seriously tho, I've been gone for a loooong minute.
Just know, I haven't changed up on you boys.I still care about Y'all,
...and I wanted to dedicate this Life hack to a guy, with a name he told me not to mention.
he told me he needed some words of encouragement, so I told him to tell me the problem..
he told me...
...and I wanted to dedicate this Life hack to a guy, with a name he told me not to mention.
he told me he needed some words of encouragement, so I told him to tell me the problem..
he told me...
he has mom issues...family matters.
He's in a situation where his mom thinks he's disrespectful, even though he feels like he hasn't done anything wrong.
to make matters worse, he even quit his job just to prove himself to his mom, but she comes up with even more excuses as to why he's being a bad son.
she goes out into the night without telling anyone, and shows up early in the morning.
she's just not giving her family the time and affection they need, as he puts it...
He's in a situation where his mom thinks he's disrespectful, even though he feels like he hasn't done anything wrong.
to make matters worse, he even quit his job just to prove himself to his mom, but she comes up with even more excuses as to why he's being a bad son.
she goes out into the night without telling anyone, and shows up early in the morning.
she's just not giving her family the time and affection they need, as he puts it...
he tells me he started being disrespectful to her after all of this
cause he thinks she isn't worthy of respect anymore.
cause he thinks she isn't worthy of respect anymore.
truth is, he would have normally vented to his older brother about this, but his older brother wasn't around at that time.
so I tried my best to carefully give him insight on how to handle this.
these topics are very delicate...I try not to stir up emotions empty words.
I couldn't tell you the full extent of how better off you'd be if you do just that, even if I tried.
the reason being is because forgiveness isn't for the person you're forgiving...
it's for you.
I'm not implying that you should put your MOM behind you, and forget about her.
I'm saying to drop the hate and strife you may have against her.
doing so will open your mind to understanding.
it'll help you keep positive more than anything. God forbid you get depressed. That could lead to some horrible things...
it will also lead to some helpful talks that might not end in
disaster.
Next is Honor.
I'm not asking you to like you parents. Some people haven't done the things required for that.
Kinda like how you have foods you like and don't like. Somethings must meet standards in order for you like it.
so I tried my best to carefully give him insight on how to handle this.
these topics are very delicate...I try not to stir up emotions empty words.
I want to help him be better, not just feel better.
:bademoticon: LETS BEGIN :bademoticon:
First off, Forgive her.so without further ado...
:bademoticon: LETS BEGIN :bademoticon:
I couldn't tell you the full extent of how better off you'd be if you do just that, even if I tried.the reason being is because forgiveness isn't for the person you're forgiving...
it's for you. you're probably wondering:
1. Why do I have to forgive HER, if it's not for her?
2. why are you using ddlc emotes? (cringe, ew')
Number 2:
haha xD *erhem*
n-Number 1: to relieve yourself of all of that weight.
harboring unforgiveness isn't good for you.
and if you don't believe in this affecting your mental health,
unforgiveness and bitterness has been scientifically proven to physically harm your body.
alone, that's 2 reasons to forgive and not to let it weigh down on you.
The most important reason is so that you can move on.1. Why do I have to forgive HER, if it's not for her?
2. why are you using ddlc emotes? (cringe, ew')
Number 2: 
The meme isn't dead yet, so SHUT U--
haha xD *erhem*
n-Number 1: to relieve yourself of all of that weight.
harboring unforgiveness isn't good for you.
and if you don't believe in this affecting your mental health,
unforgiveness and bitterness has been scientifically proven to physically harm your body.
alone, that's 2 reasons to forgive and not to let it weigh down on you.
I'm not implying that you should put your MOM behind you, and forget about her.
I'm saying to drop the hate and strife you may have against her.
doing so will open your mind to understanding.
it'll help you keep positive more than anything. God forbid you get depressed. That could lead to some horrible things...
it will also lead to some helpful talks that might not end in
disaster.Next is Honor.
I'm not asking you to like you parents. Some people haven't done the things required for that.
Kinda like how you have foods you like and don't like. Somethings must meet standards in order for you like it.
Parents are not like food.
you must honor your parents, despite what they do,
you must honor your parents, despite what they do,
because when it comes to Parents, it's not about feelings and liking...
it's about order.Think with me for a sec...
If you have kids, or if you become the head of a corporation, or if you become the leader.....of anything in any context,
you'll want the people under you to acknowledge you as such.
You must practice being obedient, respectful, and honorable. It'll open a lot of doors for you.
you'll have those gems and treasures inside you as you grow and mature. You'll be better off.
That's a promise.
If you have kids, or if you become the head of a corporation, or if you become the leader.....of anything in any context,
you'll want the people under you to acknowledge you as such.
You must practice being obedient, respectful, and honorable. It'll open a lot of doors for you.
you'll have those gems and treasures inside you as you grow and mature. You'll be better off.
That's a promise. It's the fact that he noticed a change in his mom tells me things weren't always like this, and that he still cares. :bademoticon:
so long as you still care about something, you can change it, and help it get better.
aaaaaannnnnd CUT! That's a wrap~
Thank you so so much for getting this far. It was tough dropping so many things that challenge peoples way of thinking.
And thanks to that guy for letting me tackle this
he's the real hero.
I'm praying for the all of you. I hope you guys are all doing OK, and hopefully I didn't offend...................I'll see you guys later.
so long as you still care about something, you can change it, and help it get better.
aaaaaannnnnd CUT! That's a wrap~ 
Thank you so so much for getting this far. It was tough dropping so many things that challenge peoples way of thinking.And thanks to that guy for letting me tackle this
he's the real hero. I'm praying for the all of you. I hope you guys are all doing OK, and hopefully I didn't offend...................I'll see you guys later.
:bademoticon: PEACE, ya know :bademoticon:
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Life Hacks and Cheat Codes: How to...
4 min read
Mercy
no, this isn't an Overwatch guide...
But instead, a guide to help a friend (who doesn't have a DA account) to forgive his dad.
he says his pops ain't worthy of forgiveness for what he's done.
and that he should "pay" for his wrongdoings.
I feel ya.
I was feeling the same way about [the guy] who almost made my mom divorce my dad.............those were some sad times, yeah.
I wanted JUSTICE TO RAIN FROM ABOVE!!!
I promise I'll stop with the over watch stuff x)
I was mad at him for what he did, but at the same time, I couldn't hold a grudge.
I wanted JUSTICE TO RAIN FROM ABOVE!!!
I promise I'll stop with the over watch stuff x)I was mad at him for what he did, but at the same time, I couldn't hold a grudge.
you can't progress if you let your hate hold you back.
so without further ado!!!... (don't end the Super Mario Maker, Dash!)
![[ Icon #7 ] Rin Love Live](https://images-wixmp-ed30a86b8c4ca887773594c2.wixmp.com/f/afa83381-d3a4-4b26-bf93-ea2c3021f105/d9x1cf8-53d39b1e-d9a3-4c29-bdee-9abc38562f1d.gif?token=eyJ0eXAiOiJKV1QiLCJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiJ9.eyJzdWIiOiJ1cm46YXBwOjdlMGQxODg5ODIyNjQzNzNhNWYwZDQxNWVhMGQyNmUwIiwiaXNzIjoidXJuOmFwcDo3ZTBkMTg4OTgyMjY0MzczYTVmMGQ0MTVlYTBkMjZlMCIsIm9iaiI6W1t7InBhdGgiOiJcL2ZcL2FmYTgzMzgxLWQzYTQtNGIyNi1iZjkzLWVhMmMzMDIxZjEwNVwvZDl4MWNmOC01M2QzOWIxZS1kOWEzLTRjMjktYmRlZS05YWJjMzg1NjJmMWQuZ2lmIn1dXSwiYXVkIjpbInVybjpzZXJ2aWNlOmZpbGUuZG93bmxvYWQiXX0.eR3btlhANnUYEp-TSWuPqJzU20KxwkyEoSIGNqUSRFI)
~Lezz Go-aahh~
okie, so...I put HOW TO right in the title, so this should be a step by step process to....Mercy someone you hold a grudge over...but unfortunately there is no easy way to put this.
This is a touchy topic. I wanna come off as light hearted and comical (I guess), yet serious because I'm going to mean what I say.
step 1~
find it in your heart to let it go.
Worst case scenario, you'll end up like Sasuke.
just LOOK at him and tell me if he seems OK to you...You may not EVER forget..
but you must let it go still, even if you don't forgive him right away.
That's one less burden off ya shoulders.
You'll have better days and shorter nights. Trust Me.
You'll be so much better off. It won't guarantee happiness...because nothing in this world is for sure, but you will feel better as time goes on.
...Then again, YOU shape how your day goes. You have to make a conscious decision that you won't be tied down or defeated!
step 2~
Consider forgiveness if he asks you for it...if you haven't already forgiven him.
I know he may be unworthy in you eyes, but that's the very reason why you need to forgive.He's not perfect. and sometimes, you had to be the older one in the situation...that's why you forgive him; because YOU have ascended above the problem.
It's behind you. You were strong enough to push through it. it's not even worth your time stressing over anymore. It's a bad memory, but it didn't take you out.your dad could use your strength...lend him a hand and raise him up from a low point.
what does that do?
it improves you...
people are like swords...
tempered and tried through fire
Iron Sharpens Iron
forgiving him makes you the bigger someone.
you'll only better yourself by doing good to others that do you wrong.
you're not perfect, and neither is he.
compassion and mercy mends bonds, yeah
I'm going to California on Monday.
Hopefully they'll be pics to share the experience.
pray for ya boi.
as always. I Luv Chu peeps.
Iron Sharpens Iron
people are like swords!
forgiving him makes you the bigger someone.
you'll only better yourself by doing good to others that do you wrong.
you're not perfect, and neither is he.
compassion and mercy mends bonds, yeah
this concludes another good vibe for ya head tops.
w-w-w-waddupp you guuuuyys.
I'm going to California on Monday.
Hopefully they'll be pics to share the experience.
pray for ya boi.
as always. I Luv Chu peeps.
:bademoticon: peace, yeah~ :bademoticon:
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Life Hack and Cheat Codes: The Art of...
6 min read
:bademoticon: Perseverance :bademoticon:
*deep breath* 
~welcome back to the good vibes~
let me start off by saying...when you are trying to achieve success, life can throw you some loops
no one who has achieved success said the process was a piece of cake.
you may be doing the most; 
-taking one for the team
-waking up early
-working hard and sacrificing free time....
just to have life happen to you.
maybe things didn't go as planed. maybe you lost someone AT RANDOM and you can't focus.
anything could have happened...things that distract you from reaching your destiny...
-waking up early
-working hard and sacrificing free time....
just to have life happen to you. 
maybe things didn't go as planed. maybe you lost someone AT RANDOM and you can't focus.
anything could have happened...things that distract you from reaching your destiny...
you must keep a one track mind
to keep going, even if it looks like the worst has yet to come
to keep believing, even if everyone around you doubts...even if you don't think your own skills can make the cut...
to persevere.
The art of perseverance isn't a gift, it's a decision. (for the most part)
Perseverance is the steadfastness in doing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving success.
-dictionary 2017
meaning.............anyone can simply CHOOSE to keep going...
yes.
![Neko Emoji-36 (Oh no) [V2]](https://images-wixmp-ed30a86b8c4ca887773594c2.wixmp.com/f/db95d15b-8c0c-4bb6-b743-1beb61737925/d7n4wkx-b9fad615-2bc8-4d17-a607-6f4296c8f00b.gif?token=eyJ0eXAiOiJKV1QiLCJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiJ9.eyJzdWIiOiJ1cm46YXBwOjdlMGQxODg5ODIyNjQzNzNhNWYwZDQxNWVhMGQyNmUwIiwiaXNzIjoidXJuOmFwcDo3ZTBkMTg4OTgyMjY0MzczYTVmMGQ0MTVlYTBkMjZlMCIsIm9iaiI6W1t7InBhdGgiOiJcL2ZcL2RiOTVkMTViLThjMGMtNGJiNi1iNzQzLTFiZWI2MTczNzkyNVwvZDduNHdreC1iOWZhZDYxNS0yYmM4LTRkMTctYTYwNy02ZjQyOTZjOGYwMGIuZ2lmIn1dXSwiYXVkIjpbInVybjpzZXJ2aWNlOmZpbGUuZG93bmxvYWQiXX0.MGUck83dH2TgAcN62wD4gpVu-tVB4MWAYsWwhTz63_A)
buuuuuut before you go there is more I have to say on the subject.
there may be all the reasons in the world to quit what you're doing right now.
![Levi Rivaille-04 [V5]](https://images-wixmp-ed30a86b8c4ca887773594c2.wixmp.com/f/db95d15b-8c0c-4bb6-b743-1beb61737925/d6vt08m-8414f67f-a914-4d17-8c59-03622ade072a.gif?token=eyJ0eXAiOiJKV1QiLCJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiJ9.eyJzdWIiOiJ1cm46YXBwOjdlMGQxODg5ODIyNjQzNzNhNWYwZDQxNWVhMGQyNmUwIiwiaXNzIjoidXJuOmFwcDo3ZTBkMTg4OTgyMjY0MzczYTVmMGQ0MTVlYTBkMjZlMCIsIm9iaiI6W1t7InBhdGgiOiJcL2ZcL2RiOTVkMTViLThjMGMtNGJiNi1iNzQzLTFiZWI2MTczNzkyNVwvZDZ2dDA4bS04NDE0ZjY3Zi1hOTE0LTRkMTctOGM1OS0wMzYyMmFkZTA3MmEuZ2lmIn1dXSwiYXVkIjpbInVybjpzZXJ2aWNlOmZpbGUuZG93bmxvYWQiXX0.vBK9vylTI1xSgJ5xffXX_FLXfpXxCa-hQhE2_ZeChnk)
the main reason you can't give up now, is cause living a life full of regrets is not a very decent life to live.
now....
I ain't ya daddy.
I don't know your struggle or what you're trying to achieve (unless you tell me)
a true test of perseverance isn't to endure the good times...
it's to see if you can handle the bad times and keep on keeping on.
I'm touched to see all my homies are doing great...
(im joking.)
my earnest apologies for being away for so long....I have so much to tell you.
I have so much to catch up on and read and Favorite and Comment on....
I hope y'all are having a good one...
I hope y'all liked the Hack..............
UPDATE ON THE WAY so y'all can stay up to date.....
to persevere.
![Rei Ryuugazaki (Cool Glasses) [V1]](https://images-wixmp-ed30a86b8c4ca887773594c2.wixmp.com/f/db95d15b-8c0c-4bb6-b743-1beb61737925/d6w0nsh-29f8268c-e78e-4343-a824-5c4937b7690b.gif?token=eyJ0eXAiOiJKV1QiLCJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiJ9.eyJzdWIiOiJ1cm46YXBwOjdlMGQxODg5ODIyNjQzNzNhNWYwZDQxNWVhMGQyNmUwIiwiaXNzIjoidXJuOmFwcDo3ZTBkMTg4OTgyMjY0MzczYTVmMGQ0MTVlYTBkMjZlMCIsIm9iaiI6W1t7InBhdGgiOiJcL2ZcL2RiOTVkMTViLThjMGMtNGJiNi1iNzQzLTFiZWI2MTczNzkyNVwvZDZ3MG5zaC0yOWY4MjY4Yy1lNzhlLTQzNDMtYTgyNC01YzQ5MzdiNzY5MGIuZ2lmIn1dXSwiYXVkIjpbInVybjpzZXJ2aWNlOmZpbGUuZG93bmxvYWQiXX0.FMT6FZFEv7YnKodbC_Zu8EWuuSELYgF-MdPMxmr1dQo)
and with that being said..
~Let's Begin~
The art of perseverance isn't a gift, it's a decision. (for the most part)Perseverance is the steadfastness in doing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving success.
-dictionary 2017
meaning.............anyone can simply CHOOSE to keep going...
le you. ----> "so...Avant...you've been gone for MONTHS just to tell us that?!" 
yes. 
buuuuuut before you go there is more I have to say on the subject.![Levi Rivaille (Reply) [V4]](https://images-wixmp-ed30a86b8c4ca887773594c2.wixmp.com/f/db95d15b-8c0c-4bb6-b743-1beb61737925/d6vxxge-926e51c8-eed4-46c4-9f46-c97958e3f0e5.gif?token=eyJ0eXAiOiJKV1QiLCJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiJ9.eyJzdWIiOiJ1cm46YXBwOjdlMGQxODg5ODIyNjQzNzNhNWYwZDQxNWVhMGQyNmUwIiwiaXNzIjoidXJuOmFwcDo3ZTBkMTg4OTgyMjY0MzczYTVmMGQ0MTVlYTBkMjZlMCIsIm9iaiI6W1t7InBhdGgiOiJcL2ZcL2RiOTVkMTViLThjMGMtNGJiNi1iNzQzLTFiZWI2MTczNzkyNVwvZDZ2eHhnZS05MjZlNTFjOC1lZWQ0LTQ2YzQtOWY0Ni1jOTc5NThlM2YwZTUuZ2lmIn1dXSwiYXVkIjpbInVybjpzZXJ2aWNlOmZpbGUuZG93bmxvYWQiXX0.ldctygN-Pea0cqPVgc0VEC0I87lg74QTMLLVDPtSXoI)
perseverance isn't easy.
there may be all the reasons in the world to quit what you're doing right now. the main reason you can't give up now, is cause living a life full of regrets is not a very decent life to live.i would know
- remember why you get in the morning to try everyday.
- keep dreaming, and envisioning yourself in that spot...it's possible.
and most importantly.
that last one is the biggest reason why most people lose hope...and give up.
That's the road you take if you wanna get some where.
I remember my dad once told me...
- don't give up because you don't see progress.
that last one is the biggest reason why most people lose hope...and give up.To grind it out and press on is the hard way!
That's the road you take if you wanna get some where.
I remember my dad once told me...
"if you don't have to work hard in-order to reach what you call 'success' in life...you need better goals"
I ain't ya daddy.
I don't know your struggle or what you're trying to achieve (unless you tell me)
what I DO know
is that if your dream requires effort to obtain it/make it a reality, put in the effort, and don't stop.to recap
a true test of perseverance isn't to endure the good times...it's to see if you can handle the bad times and keep on keeping on.
![[EXO] Tao Emoticon](https://images-wixmp-ed30a86b8c4ca887773594c2.wixmp.com/f/92402bca-5b31-47da-a643-7c0cd59dd7ff/d7a8yu2-e7eb8b5d-013f-4bdb-9b52-52aa07b634b7.gif?token=eyJ0eXAiOiJKV1QiLCJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiJ9.eyJzdWIiOiJ1cm46YXBwOjdlMGQxODg5ODIyNjQzNzNhNWYwZDQxNWVhMGQyNmUwIiwiaXNzIjoidXJuOmFwcDo3ZTBkMTg4OTgyMjY0MzczYTVmMGQ0MTVlYTBkMjZlMCIsIm9iaiI6W1t7InBhdGgiOiJcL2ZcLzkyNDAyYmNhLTViMzEtNDdkYS1hNjQzLTdjMGNkNTlkZDdmZlwvZDdhOHl1Mi1lN2ViOGI1ZC0wMTNmLTRiZGItOWI1Mi01MmFhMDdiNjM0YjcuZ2lmIn1dXSwiYXVkIjpbInVybjpzZXJ2aWNlOmZpbGUuZG93bmxvYWQiXX0.zxlVR1OIUn3yhCavnCtRQXMoyEDDjAry4qjcTRGY5es)
to wrap it up nicely
that concludes another one of my "amazing" and "cool" life hacks xD
bless my soul, it's been ages.
I'm touched to see all my homies are doing great...
and waited for me as I predicted.
(im joking.)
my earnest apologies for being away for so long....I have so much to tell you.I have so much to catch up on and read and Favorite and Comment on....
I hope y'all are having a good one...
I hope y'all liked the Hack..............
UPDATE ON THE WAY so y'all can stay up to date.....
I srrsly luv U guys.
~ PEACE ~
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Love the flow
1 min read
I love music..............................................(this belongs to Pogo)
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Halley lu yah!
1 min read
isn't he beautiful? His name is Hallelujah...He's from Shin Megami Tensei. Imagine him with a smile that stretches across his face...
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